Why Should I Have a Roommate When I Rent?
For many people, the prospect of having a roommate can seem a little scary or uncomfortable. However, in these tough economic times, finding a good roomie to share the bills (and the living room) with is becoming much more common – and more necessary. With a little planning and good judgment, finding and keeping a roommate can be a wonderful, fun process with many benefits.
One of the most obvious reasons for having a roommate is to have someone to share the bills with. While splitting rent and any necessary utilities is common, some roommates also opt to share grocery bills, cable bills, and internet fees. If one lives alone, he or she would be responsible for all of these costs, but with a roommate or two, they are reduced by quite a lot.
In addition to sharing in fiscal matters, some roommates also choose to share household chores such as cooking and cleaning. Not having to come home from a tough day of work and clean the entire apartment is absolutely pricess!
Another added benefit of sharing one’s space is the security of knowing someone else is at home. If one goes on a trip or extended vacation, he or she will not have to worry about the apartment or deal with the hassles of finding an apartment sitter.
In some cases, roommates also become lifelong friends! If one rooms with a good friend or if he or she becomes friends with the roommate, imagine all the fun and laughter that will be shared! Living with someone whom one likes and enjoys spending time with is an incredible experience and bonds people together like no other. There is always someone there to talk to or watch a video with!
Of course, not every roommate situation will be ideal. That is where boundaries come in. Before taking the leap and moving in with someone, it is vital to discuss what both parties would like the living situation to be like! If one is looking for a pal to share conversations with, he or she should be upfront about this. Likewise, if one is the type of person who prefers to come home and go straight to his or her room, this is another thing to be honest about. One’s feelings on having guests over, on the type of guests allowed over, and on how long guests should stay are also matters to be discussed. In general, all habits, cleanliness issues, and lifestyle choices are matters that should be laid out in the open, so that there are no surprises or disappointments along the way. Being honest about one’s wants and needs is vital to finding the right roommate.The amount of rent to be paid and what other bills and responsibilities are to be shared are other decisions that should be made before anyone starts moving in his or her belongings!
If these careful steps are followed, and if everyone involved knows what to expect from the start, finding a roommate and living peacefully with him or her should be a great adventure!

